I am new to blogging and I felt the need to share the nightmare that I have been living. Yes, in a sense I am hoping to find blogging therapeutic and I also hope to help others know that they are not alone if they too are living a similar nightmare.
Two years and five months ago I filed for divorce. Up to this date we have yet to finalize temporary orders or go to mediation. My husband and I stepped out of a cardboard box and together we built quite a bit. We had a great marriage and relationship, until…yes, he hired a young secretary and traded me in. Prior to that we had planned to renew our vowels in a Methodist church downtown S.A. and take a European vacation for our honeymoon. The venue, church, cruise, wedding attire for groomsmen and bridesmaids had all been paid for along with over 300 wedding invitations sent out. Coincidentally, the date to our wedding at the church continuously had to be corrected until it was too late to correct the date and the wedding had to be cancelled. When we decided to go ahead with the cruise, coincidentally; my husband’s passport could not be found. It was when the school principal and myself, the counselor were out doing a home visit when we came upon a home being built by “our”company. I had my principal stop so that I could get off and make some inquiries. I learned that day that my husband was using our company, employees, and all other resources to build “the” secretary an elaborate home. This was the day I filed for divorce.
This is the two-story bar and game room that sits outside my husband’s paramour’s home that my husband had built using our company and resources. The house also has two guest houses, a pool, and outdoor pool bar.